July 15, 2014
70 Years, Birthday List, Birthdays, Families, Family, Happy Birthday, Kids, Love, Moms, Mothers, Mums, Parents, Sons
My extraordinary Mum turns 70 this week. I love her. Here’s a few of the countless reasons why:
Her green eyes
Her louuuud laugh
Her penchant for ‘Tweed’ perfume
Her fierce loyalty to family
Her limitless love of her three boys
She constantly lets me know I am the favourite of her three boys
July 2, 2014
Aides, ASD, Australia, Australian Education, Autism, Autism Support, BC Teachers Strike, Canada, Canada Day, Canadian Education, Disability, Disability Support, Education, Schooling, Special Needs, Teacher Aides, Teachers
Back in May of 2007, as Term One of our twins’ first and last year of Australian schooling was drawing to a close, we understood the situation:
On Fridays, there would be no teacher-aide support in mainstream class for our autism-diagnosed son. The other four days were fine, but the ‘emergency funding’ for the fifth had run out. If we wanted support, we could pay for it ourselves, or we could come to school with him. Of course, we could always keep him at home if we wanted. This was how it would be for the remainder of the year. This was how it would be for the next twelve years.
You can imagine our emotions – anger, disbelief, disillusionment.
It may surprise you to know there was also relief.
May 28, 2014
ASD, Asperger's, Asperger's Syndrome, Aspie, Autism, Elliot Rodger, Media Fail, Santa Barbara Shooting
When I told my 12 year old ASD son that the media’s reporting of the recent Santa Barbara tragedy had spotlighted the killer as having autism, he was angry. He threw his hands up, stomped the floor, cried out in frustration.
“Why would they do that, Dad?” he asked. “Why would they make it seem as if autism can cause mass murder? As if someone like me could take the lives of other human beings?”
“I don’t know, son,” I replied.
“Do they realize they’re hurting lots of ASD people who’ve done nothing wrong? Do they understand they’re making innocent people suffer?”
“I don’t know, son.”
“And it’s no use apologizing later. Once you’ve said it, it’s out there. You can’t take it back.”
“I know, son.”
There was great truth in my boy’s words…If only they were his words.
None of this conversation, in fact, happened.
May 19, 2014
Summer Fun Fundraising
50/50 Draw, Autism, Autism Support, Boundary Bay Airport, Delta BC, Delta Life Skills, Door Prizes, Fundraising, Ladner BC, Pub Night, Silent Auction, Skyhawk Restaurant, Special Needs Kids, Special Needs Support, Summer, Summer Fun, Surrey BC, Win Prizes
My twelve year old Autism-diagnosed son, Jared, is participating in the Delta Life Skills ‘Summer Fun Program’ this year. Summer Fun is a unique six week initiative that enhances the social experiences for 50-60 children and young adults with special challenges and their families, and provides the opportunity to learn a broad range of basic life skills integral to a quality of life which they otherwise may not have had. It costs around $4,500 per child to run Summer Fun – parents are only required to pay $1,000 of that amount. The remainder of the money comes from fundraising, and goes entirely to running the program and providing one-to-one support for every participant.
The next fundraiser is a Pub Night at the Skyhawk restaurant. Here are the details: